Are you confused about women’s lib, want to earn a big paycheck, but still want your car door opened? Equality and courting are not mutually exclusive and exist side by side in the best relationships.
Equality and Courting in a Relationship:
- Equality refers to opportunity; it is very different than courting. Courting happens in the heart, equality happens in the brain. Courting bypasses the brain. When a man opens a car door for a woman there is male/female exchange of energy; he feels more male and she feels more female.
- When we try to be the same as a man, we deny ourselves the enjoyment of being a woman. Although we may come into this world as either male or female, unless we enjoy who we are, we miss a lot of delight and joy. I do not think our sex is an accident. I know why I am female this time (I have lessons to learn). PS. I could do male standing on my head.
- Men are confused about what makes women feel good but we have confused them. And now we don’t like the result. Women need to re-evaluate what feels good to them. In order for there to be chemistry, the male/female polarity needs to be in place. In relationship, when a woman behaves like a man she automatically pulls a more feminine male counterpart and then wonders why a strong, masculine man is not attracted to her.
- Men and Women are different and different things make them feel good. Do not try to make a man like your girlfriends, and do not treat a woman like one of the guys. Nothing more needs to be said.
- A feeling of equality comes naturally when we have nothing to prove and can simply enjoy the differences.
